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Time For Jewish Interfaith Marriage

By Timothy Adams


As the days go by and people get older, it is wondered when the time will come that marriage is on the list of to dos. Jewish interfaith marriage is quite common today as people are freer thinkers and do not let the dictates of religion bother them too much. With online dating it has become quite common for singles of different faiths to meet and consider getting married.

Marrying out of faith can prove at times quite taxing especially if parents would have liked their children to marry in their respective faiths. With time and a lot of love, family members do come round and also too look forward to the special day. One also needs to consider what one will tell children that are brought into this world but many overcome this obstacle by exposing them to both faiths.

Should one be unfamiliar with Judaism it is best to do some research and find out a little bit about this religion. There are many laws and customs that are practiced and this is especially so revolving around a day of marriage. Online abounds with information on all aspects of Jewish Law, its practices, customs and traditions.

Should a partner be an Orthodox Jew or Jewess then this can pose many problems. Firstly, one can rule out having the ceremony in an Orthodox Synagogue as a marriage such as this is not condoned or accepted at all in religious circles. Many find that they will need the assistance of an interfaith Rabbi to do the honours and officiate the marriage ceremony.

Laws pertaining to food will have to be learnt about should one of the partners feel they would like to know more. This sometimes work and the Jew in the partnership will appreciate the effort made by their spouse to be. It takes a lifetime to know a fraction of the material contained in the Torah or Bible as it is known in English spheres.

The decision basically boils down whether to have a meat meal or a milk one. These two cannot be mixed as this goes against the laws of kashrut. It is best advice to use a caterer that caters for such events and one that has been accepted as preparing foods that are completely kosher and is recognised by a Jewish Court of Law or Beth Din.

Being prepared takes some investigations and asking a Rabbi what is required is a must. They are there to guide one and to put one at ease whilst the preparations are underway. Questions will arise as to what is allowed and what is not but with time these tend to work themselves out for themselves.

All in all it is not too difficult to prepare an occasion such as this and many turn to a Rabbi who is prepared to officiate at such an event. It is a day that will be remembered for the rest of time so best to be prepared and find out all one needs to know. An interfaith Rabbi is a call away and is there to answer the many difficult questions that may arise.




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